The phrase “it takes a village to raise a child” is believed to be an African proverb (although there is no hard evidence to the fact). This thought conveys the idea that a community is needed to provide a safe and healthy environment for children. It means that many people, or a “village,” are needed to help children grow and develop, and to realize their potential. This became a popular movement in the 1992-2000 under the Clinton administration as well as once again in 2008-2016 during the Obama administration. Both Hillary Clinton and Michelle Obama embraced this idea and took it to great heights, creating programs and many opportunities that helped families and especially the children of those families.

But what I like about this proverb is how it has expanded into other meanings over the last two decades. There is now an essential idea that the village supports the people who live there, creating a like-minded community. Each community has its own life force, some through community or recreation and senior centers, some through town halls, and some through various churches. People can create change through their communities if they work together. Through their collective responsibility, they can share the enormous undertakings in cities as a team. They create the place they want to live and thrive when they create a peaceful environment. You heard the old adage: Teamwork Makes the Dreamwork. Our community believes this and tries to help change the things that need changing (well, with a minimum of complaining, which is okay, too).

I truly believe that no one is meant to do life alone. My village of friends has expanded over the years. For me it’s a lot of the folks at our Recreation and Senior Center through the programs I am currently involved in. For a long time I was adrift. I have other friends, but now I think I have found my new people. They offer me guidance, practical help, and sometimes just a safe place to share my thoughts and feelings.

For more information I encourage you to read and process these great books:
Hillary Rodham Clinton’s book: It Takes a Village
Michelle Obama’s book: Becoming and workbook Overcoming

So, be aware that we need you in 2025 to help us all get through what life will throw at us!
And recognize that it does take a village so thanks for being part of ours (even if it’s building Legos together to create the ideal village)! I love you all and I send you a big kiss. Happy Holidays!