The final part of this message concludes the analysis of the Four Agreements. Here are the last two:

The third agreement, Don’t Make Assumptions reminds us to get the facts before assuming the information is true. Assumptions are based on our bias, past experiences, and fears. They can distort reality. We must discern the truth in order to understand the message. We conflict with the person because we take it personally and as a result our feelings are hurt. It is best to learn how to ask good questions to seek the truth. Assume nothing. Others may not know what we think or talk over us. Open communication can allow us to talk rationally and connect without dram. It’s a way to transform our sadness and drama. Ask for what you want and be content if the answer is no. Finally, this is a hard one: Relinquish the need to change others. Real love is accepting other people the way they are. They may not think like you, but that’s okay. Speak your mind, but try and let go. Agree to Disagree and move on.

The fourth agreement, Always Do Your Best emphasizes the importance of giving your all to every action and decision. But remember that your best changes due to your circumstances, health, mood, and a myriad of other factors. If you spiral in the trap of judging yourself or others too harshly, you will regret your actions. Sometimes people don’t meet our expectations and vice versa. If we can continue to stay in the present moment, and take actions on our ideas, we will get results. We will accomplish a great deal if we commit to action without reward. If we receive a reward, it is fantastic. But the doing is the most important topic in this case. Realize that the action may not be perfect. But we aren’t perfect. We aim towards mastery, but achieve as much as we can every day. Having a balance approach to life can help us reduce stress and be more resilient.

We strive for freedom, happiness, and love if we can delve into these agreements with others and ourselves. We can all have a profound impact if we create a daily practice, and cultivate our lives into being authentic, understanding, and attaining peace. I love you all tonight and hope you attain everything you wish. Hug your loved ones and keep them safe and warm, and always close to your heart.