Wondering Why We’re All Here

Today was a mixture of usual activities at work and one of those “I wonder why I’m here?”
I think I am helping everyone get ahead of the game, and yet it is a never-ending battle. I am a historian on how things have worked in the past, and by telling the history, I can hopefully give new folks ideas to make it better.

But, in this universal quest of pondering why we’re here, the answers are lacking today. I think it is a grand experiment to see how we can all get along, make a living, meet people, love in the time of hate, and survive in the world. The band Rush in their album Roll the Bones asks “Why are we here? Because we’re here, roll the bones….” Is it simply a roll of the bones, or is there purpose in our lives? I think we have failed miserably on many counts, but human beings are still here on this planet. It’s how we make things right in the future, work towards a harmonious existence, and strive for growth beyond our planet that will determine our fate. The stars are watching and it’s time to venture out into them.

Enjoy the moments, no matter how you can elicit them, and listen to these folks ponder the same question. From Frank Zappa to The Red Clay Strays to ….

Frank Zappa and you are probably wondering why I’m here.

The Red Clay Strays wondering why

Red vs. Blue video game why are we here

Or just some cool images and swag of why are we here

Keep living, keep loving, keep learning!

Generational Workplaces

Workplaces today, have a multitude of age groups, from Boomers to Gen Alpha. Managers and coworkers must figure out how they handle the different generations and create reasonable expectations. Everyone contributes equally if they are treated with respect. Managers have to understand that every generation is different in how they approach work. They don’t always fit into a preconceived box that the past rulers deemed appropriate. Older thought processes of management must be displaced with new and innovative ideas to create viable work situations.

It seems to be a hard process for government job managers to understand this transition. Just because “It’s always been done that way,” doesn’t mean that the process can’t change. Obviously, most of these jobs are limited with their software, sometimes being older than the private sector technology. These workers have to learn systems that they have never worked with before so there is always a time lag for learning.

Managers also have to understand that most government positions pay less than the average private sector job in the real world. People come to these jobs to learn new skills and have different perspectives on how to respond to public demands. It is up to a manager to give guidance on how to conduct themselves as representatives of that governmental entity. Their peers need to educate them in a code of conduct, but not preach their views. Us old folks grew up in a different time where dress codes were different. We taught our children that they should be comfortable in their skins and express themselves. So sometimes, the younger people are more sensitive to criticism. I always think that a manager should just count to five before speaking. They should also try not to put a younger person in a box that will never fit them.

Many years ago, I remember traveling to Long Beach, California to work with the police. The D.C folks arrived in dark suits and ties. We westerners arrived in suits, bolo ties and dress shoes (men), suit coats and skirts, or shirt dresses, scarves, and heels (women) to greet them at their building at exactly 8:00 a.m. The Long Beach folks arrived around 9:00 am, in shorts or jeans, and Hawaiian shirts. They had long hair, beards, and huarache sandals. It took us a minute to get used to their way of life, but in the end, we relaxed a little and got the work done. And maybe a few of us took the suits off at last when we got home (me), preferring black jeans and button-down shirts (and black tennis shoes instead of heels) as our newly invented selves.

All I am saying is we can all work together if we don’t worry about clothing styles or 8 to 5 schedules. If managers just value the work, it doesn’t matter how we work or dress (within reason). If the jobs get done in a timely manner, it’s okay to have different lifestyles or schedules. Young workers have been raised differently, and are not a slave to their work. We hope parents raised them to be responsible, and do their due diligence, when they take on a job. And we hope as parents that the younger ones entering the market are embracing adulthood. Managers can benefit from figuring out a welcoming work environment where everyone can thrive. Everyone brings something to the table, past experiences, and new experiences and the old can learn from the young and vice versa. We can be a force of nature and do amazing things if a system is created for harmony, not discord. So, let’s just all try to get along!

I am learning something new everyday and send my love out to all of you each night!

See the Beauty in the Dark While You are Still in It

–Quote for title is from The Flower Sisters, by Michelle Collins Anderson
Even in the darkest times, the stars will shine in the night skies, and bring hope to those who look up. Darkness can be calming, or it can become a nightmare. It’s how you interact with it that makes your life better or worse. If you can embrace your life as it is, knowing that the sun will, indeed, come up tomorrow, you can live in your own skin. You can accept that there will always be dark times, but hope does spring eternal, and we can look forward to another day of living.

Today was a reflection day of where we are going and why the turmoil is making us frazzled human beings. A co-worker died just a few days ago and it was a shock to my system. He was younger than me, and seemed in good health. Although we didn’t know each other well, we shared funny jokes and silliness. We had just said “Hey” to each other a few days ago and didn’t think anything of it. Sometimes I feel I am lucky that I haven’t gotten there yet, aches and pains and all. And sometimes I wonder what it will be like when my time comes. Will there be an afterlife? Will I come back? Answers that are beyond me at this point even though I ponder it. I hope for a very long life and sharing knowledge and love every day that I am given on this planet. I hope this co-worker found peace and happiness wherever and whenever he is in this time-space continuum. In Anderson’s book, The Flower Sisters, the grandmother was an undertaker for her small town, and had this to say when receiving a body and regarding death: “No one is special; no one is spared. It is a concept that is both infuriating and comforting, depending on my mood….”

As we age, we all think of ourselves as that eighteen-year-old kid who was bright-eyed and prepared for anything: going off to college, or trade school, traveling the world, or to fight in a  war. And we fled our homes in hopes that our lives would have meaning and we would make a difference in the world. We wanted to change who we were. We wanted to be different from our parents and ancestors. Yet, we understood that we couldn’t change where or who we’d come from, but those old places we lived, depending on the history, the good and the bad feelings, would stay with us throughout our lives. Many of us decided to stay close to home, and live our lives, in close proximity to our families and on our ancestors’ lands. But many of us ventured out into the world and tried to become someone else. The memories and heritage would always stay with us, but some of us knew that we wanted to create a different community and raise our families with those who were more likely to embrace a future that would be better for all.

Hopefully, we all found our place in the world, and our stories mingled with those new people in our lives. Hopefully, we were able to reconcile where we came from and where we were headed: towards a different future.

There will always be those heritage memories and some of us are able to reconcile our past with our current states. Some of us write about these memories to help us have a heart that is full but also open to new adventures and live a life that is full of love.

It’s hard to think of yourself as aging and needing help in the future. It’s hard to talk about parents that are gone, or aren’t aging as well as you are. But, we have to take care of our past, and our elders and pass on this sense of duty to our children.

My hope is that when we need help, our child will understand that it’s okay to help us take care of ourselves. We don’t want to become elders, yet it is going to happen. My questions for tonight are: “Why is this such a hard concept to those in power? Why is our country diminishing those in need right now?” Is it because they are afraid to get old? Don’t they understand that no amount of money will buy you out of your ending? It will happen when it happens.

I am taking this opportunity to tell the world this: Take care of yourself, but also take care of your elders. It’s okay if they weren’t the greatest parents and grandparents to you. They did the best they could. And I would like to tell the people in power: Take a moment to reflect before you cut services to those in need.

I love you all, and hope you can wrap your arms around those you hold dear. Hold them close as long as you can.

When You Most Need It

Sometimes the world’s woes move in and sit overhead for a little while. And, then the skies open up and give us rain to help the flowers and gardens grow. I am thankful for the rain today and promise of spring.

I am also thankful for the windfall amount of money I got from Social Security today after all these years of paying into it. Thank you President Biden for passing this legislation and helping the people who really need a break right now.

And finally, I am thankful for my ability to continue to work for a little longer, to keep the brain sharp and balance my life once again. Some days to work, and some days to play will help me these next few months.

The universe will come back in balance for all of us if we just keep striving for a better world. I saw these lists and thought it might be useful for everyone to think of ideas on thankfulness and gratitude.
https://www.101planners.com/things-to-be-grateful-for/
https://thepositivitysite.com/a-to-z-gratitude-list/

Short and sweet tonight. Love to all.

Non-Sequiturs and Connections

Non-Sequitur: an inference that does not follow from the premise; specifically: a fallacy resulting from a simple conversion of a universal affirmative proposition or from the transposition of a condition and its consequent. 2: a statement (such as a response) that does not follow logically from or is not clearly related to anything previously said.

Non sequitur comes directly from Latin; in which language it means “it does not follow.” Borrowed into English in the 16th century by logicians, non sequitur initially referred to a conclusion that did not follow the statements preceding it. The meaning has now broadened to include statements that are seemingly unrelated to the topic at hand, or that seem to come out of the blue.—Merriam-Webster Dictionary

A Non sequitur is produced inadvertently due to some confusion, and even sometimes deliberately to confound the audience, in order to point out the confusion existing in the situation or society at large.

Types of Non sequitur can be random statements that are completely unrelated to the previous topic or context.
1.         Red Herring: Introducing a distraction or irrelevant topic to divert attention from the main issue. Example: “You should vote for me because I volunteer at a soup kitchen. By the way, have you seen the latest movie?”
2.         Appeal to Emotion: Using an emotional appeal that doesn’t logically support the argument. Example: “We must pass this bill to help the children. By the way, did you know my opponent’s favorite color is blue?”
3.         Faulty Cause and Effect: Assuming a cause-and-effect relationship without logical support. Example: “I ate carrots yesterday, and today it’s raining. Carrots must cause rain!”
4.         Non Sequitur in Comedy: Deliberate use of absurd or unrelated statements for comedic effect. Example: “I asked for a glass of water, not a bucket of tears!” These came from a great website that you might want to check out:
https://www.examples.com/english/non-sequitur.html

Although this was a great exercise in language for me today, do you get where I am going? Sometimes in writing and news media we will hear conclusions about a subject that are so way out there in never-neverland, people believe that somehow these statements are connected. It can be an extremely outrageous connection, and yet people believe it because of the personality of the one claiming it as truth.

As a former analyst and now writer, I see this every day with people who stretch the truth to make a believable story that fits their definition of the way people or the world has become (in their minds). And, unfortunately, it becomes truth to many of the masses.

I love a great story like anyone else, but when it comes to making decisions on things that matter, or the un-connectedness of the information and its interpretation starts to hurt people, we must all act together to put a stop to it. So when you hear things that make no sense as a segue to what you are talking about, try to put the person on the right track. If they won’t hear of it, just try to move on the best way you know how. Sometimes you just can’t change people. They have to change themselves or just live with the consequences.

As a final note, Robert Reich is an amazing professor and speaker and according to Wikipedia: …author, lawyer, and political commentator…. The Wall Street Journal placed him sixth on its list of Most Influential Business Thinkers…. Reich worked in the administrations of presidents Gerald Ford and Jimmy Carter. And served as Secretary of Labor of President Bill Clinton. Finally, he was also a member of President Barack Obama’s economic transition advisory board.

I urge you to go to this website to encourage action right now.
https://robertreich.substack.com/p/more-on-what-you-can-do

Better times will happen if we make them happen. Fight the good fight, then have a nice dinner and hug your loved ones and keep them close. Love to all tonight.

Seasonal Interpretation

Reflecting on the Seasons and what I do….

Holidays/Winter:
Bake lots and lots of goodies and give them away
Lego Villages build events with kiddo and friends
Knit and create
Find fun and funny presents for my family
Take a class
Fitness
Volunteer one day a week
Make a joyful noise
Take lessons/learn something new

Spring:
Writing gets serious
Reading a slew of books and blogging about them
Make a connection
Go back to work part-time
Cleanup/Spruce-up/Repair
Put away keepsakes (Remember when the organizer people told you to buy plastic bins for storage? Well, now they are telling you to stop buying plastic bins. Full Circle and still needing to get rid of stuff!)
Get your garden seedlings going/Food for you!

Summer:
Plant your own garden – eat healthy even in the food deserts we have created
Plant your pots and beds with wonderful flowers/mulch and water around them
Support your CSAs/Emulate Michelle Obama!
Emulate P. Allen Smith! Admire and aspire to those who are amazing gardeners.

Fall:
Cleanup house and gardens
Ready for Winter
Go somewhere on an adventure
Writing continues
Reading continues
Prepare for Holidays

It feels like spring, and yet we know winter will return here in a few days. But I go outside and clean up when I can to prepare for a wonderful summer garden. Inside, I am working and cleaning and freshening up. It never stops. This is just what I do. Prepping for kiddo to come home on spring break and enjoy time with him. Making blueberry muffins a la Stephen Colbert and Evie McGee Colbert’s cookbook-wonderful recipe! Cake planning for hubby for his birthday (Spring baby!)

I am at peace today for a little while in my bubble of happiness. I am letting the world swirl outside my thoughts. Find your own sense of peace for one day. Love to all tonight.

Identify as a HUMAN BEING

Varmint: A troublesome wild animal. Vermin: Vermin are pests or nuisance animals that spread diseases and destroy property. Since the term is defined in relation to human activities, which species are included vary by region and enterprise.

Human Beings Are Not Insects, Vermin, Parasites, or Garbage
“We are not infestations, and should never be exterminated…. Using metaphors such as insects, vermin, parasites, garbage, and such elicits the feelings of disgust one has for those things and connects that emotion of disgust with the person or group of people described.”
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/happiness-and-the-pursuit-of-leadership/201909/human-beings-are-not-insects-vermin-parasites

Something to think about when we go to describe people not like you. Let’s all get along and accept who we are and how we identify. I identify as a HUMAN BEING on this planet and love and treat everyone with respect every day that I am here. Let’s all write the media and people that spew this nonsense and tell them to stop. It is not acceptable.

Love to all out there!

Two More Things

1.         Today, friends and media asked us to participate in a NO-SPEND DAY to protest the shenanigans happening in you know, where. See the USA article posted today on the Economic Blackout-Boycott
We were asked to boycott all the big corporations, but… here’s the thing: “When asked which presidential candidate would have the greatest impact on the small business sector, 54% of small-business owners named Trump, while only 22% chose Harris, according to BizBuySell’s quarterly Insight Report, released at the end of October.” This is from an  article posted a few months ago titled: “Small-Business Owners Voted for Trump. They Won’t Get Everything On Their Wish List.”

Soooo…. They voted for that guy in office, and now they are facing the consequences due to tariffs, etc. Was this reasoning because they didn’t want to pay for things like … let’s say…decent wages and healthcare for their employees? Hmmm….so I’m not shopping at anyone’s place of business today. (Come on people! Why did you think this guy would help you?) … JUST SAYIN’.

2.         I want to repeat what I said last night about instructing your children and yourselves about government. Please read Dr. Lindsey Cormack’s book How to Raise a Citizen. She encourages you to have those difficult conversations in a contentious time. She stated that “As I often tell my students, politics is going to happen to us whether we like it or not, so we might as well understand how the system works.” WOW!

So lots to think about today. I will try and get back to you later on a more positive note! Now I am back to never-neverland writing my book! I send love out to all of you, no matter who you are!

Moving On – Take it Easy

How many times have I heard these two idioms in my lifetime? When something is so difficult to fathom, how are these helpful statements?

It’s true that individuals must let go of past experiences to move forward. Dealing with emotions that bring us down helps us get a sense of clarity and purpose for our future selves. And yet, so many of us have held onto the grudges from the past. It doesn’t serve us when those in power hold onto these feelings and try to change the perspective of everyone around them. This me-centric personality is not a good fit for the highest office in the land.

But you know that’s not the only thing that I am here to talk about tonight. I was pondering how our future voters are doing in their government/civics and history classes in school? Are they learning what governmental entities should be doing? Are they learning what democracy is all about so when it becomes their time to vote in the next presidential election, we won’t have this fiasco once again?

Reporters in a 2023 article in USA Today, stated that the “2022 National Assessment of Educational Progress (often called “The Nation’s Report Card”) showed that only 22% of eighth graders are proficient in civics and 13% in U.S. history.  These scores have been declining – and we will pay the price if we don’t turn around those scores.”

This article further stated that “There is nothing partisan about being a good citizen. Understanding our history and the fundamental principles of our country and government are as fundamental and learnable as our ABCs − if we follow sound principles, and take history and civics seriously as a nation….That means quality history education for all − anchored in well-researched and verifiable truths about our nation’s unique founding and contributions to the world, our high ideals and core civic principles, the promises we’ve struggled to fulfill, and the diverse voices and experiences that have shaped our history.”

How has this gotten past the fundamental knowledge kids need to know about history and government? Why haven’t we provided teachers the support to create “critical thinking skills” to shape early minds so they don’t turn out like the crazed forces who put this person in office? What happened to teaching students how to “…evaluate evidence, consider different perspectives, and to discuss and debate historical events and controversial topics − respectfully and in a balanced manner. They should be taught the awesome responsibilities of citizenship, and the equally awesome powers of civic engagement and community involvement.”
Kid’s Education in Civics and History

Why did the parents of this last generation lose interest and a priority to teach basic understanding of their government, its history, and how it works to their children and themselves? An article on the Big Think website explained that “When political know-how is low among a populace, misinformation spreads easily, and citizens don’t have the confidence to engage with the system.” Author and professor of Political Science, Lindsey Cormack, asked this question among many others and has authored an amazing book called How to Raise a Citizen which came out in 2024. She stated: “I don’t know anything that gets better by people not being willing to talk about it,” Cormack says.

The article further states that “Civics is often taught as a checklist of must-memorize facts that don’t build into valuable skills. The short time frame is partly to blame, but so is a social climate that makes teachers and districts fearful that going beyond the “most anodyne” of trivia risks a social media firestorm.”

“The result? “It turns kids into spectators of history rather than participants,” Cormack says. For more information on this subject see the website:
Explaining How Government Works

We have to allow teachers to teach these subjects without fear of repercussions. We have to teach our children to delve deeper into topics that are controversial and are now being controlled by social media.

“Democracy dies in silence, and…parents need to do this job because no one else will….Follow her [Cormack’s] advice and maybe inspire them for life. Our national conversation starts with you.”—David Daily from How to Raise a Citizen.

We can’t “take it easy” about fascism and its grip on our society and people. We have to be vigilant and learn what government should be about. We have to get our country back to a state of peaceful cohabitation with the rest of the world. Sure, it’s easy for those in power to tell us to “Move on,” but we can’t move on to a government that shouldn’t be ours. We have to return to what is right and lawful and make our peace with the world leaders who are kind and just. We cannot let oligarchs take over. Their actions are despicable and self-centered and people are hurting everywhere, even those who bought into the whole world of that guy in office. They truly drank the Kool Aid (Look it up!). They are suddenly realizing that all of these events to defeat democracy are affecting them as well as the people they hate.

So, no, I’m not ready to give up the fight and move on. I will continue the fight locally and have my say. I can’t take it easy until lawful and peaceful movements take precedence. It is good to see people attending meetings and asking good questions. But Democrats have to stop being frustrated with the people they elected. They are doing the best they can. They don’t have a majority and so many illegal things are happening right now in our government. Now is the time to keep the conversations going. Now is the time to keep asking questions. Everyone has to reach out to the neighbors (Republicans) and explain to them what they have done. We have to all come together and understand what is going on. We must make the world a better place.

Something to think about and hopefully, react to, in these next few years. Keep reading, keep writing, keep asking good questions.

Reach out to all those in need and help them in any way you can in your little hometowns. I love you all tonight and stay safe out there.

Going Back to Work

Today I was offered a job to go back to work part-time. Three days a week and they work around my schedule and pay me well. Not bad. So, since my brain has been in overload, I decided to do it for the next few months. It’s nice to get a call from the HR people who know me. I can fill in until they get a new person. And I’ve worked in all of their computer systems, and I know how to deal with telephone calls and people, so I should still be able to do it. Sometimes you just have to get out of your daily routine comfort and take the plunge. We can save the money for expenses that are coming up and maybe even go out and have a nice dinner once in a while. I love my little city and the people in it. Thank you all for allowing me to continue doing what I do best.

Remember that being a senior doesn’t mean you have to just sit and quit. You can stay active and learn new things every day. Learn from the young people working around you, bake them cookies, and knit them scarves!

And if you hurt a little more, try and take a little break in between assignments so you can take a walk. Our downtown is wonderful, and walking to the park and back is both good for the head and the body.

Listen to some good music like Tom Jones, The Animals, Buffalo Springfield, The Foundations, Four Tops, and even 3 Doors Down.

Sing oldies but goodies, with your wonderful choir, to the ones in Memory Care.

Tomorrow will be another day in towards our future. We have to release the negative for a little while and do what we can when we can. And if we get a little money for it, that’s okay, too! Save a little, pass on what you can to help others, and smile. So, For Once in My Life, Build Me Up Buttercup, and Help [Your]self, Sugar Pie, Honey Bunch!

I love you all tonight and hope we can all just breathe it out.