The Gathering of Minds around the Campfire

We search for our primeval selves in the summer: the gatherers, the hunters, and the farmers later in the evolutionary process. In the wild west we attempt to grow things in the heat, drought and horrific storms that destroy crops and shelter. And yet, we build again, knowing that this cycle will repeat itself, getting worse each year that we abuse the land even more than we have in the past. Many of us are trying to create a little sacred, bountiful place where we live. But many more of us don’t know how to start, or don’t want to because it is incredibly hard work. It taxes us beyond measure. We have to learn to persevere and enjoy the perseverance.

In this crowded suburban world, and the Door Dash quick and easy society, it’s hard to imagine us going back to working the land and creating something wonderful with our hands. And yet, some of us try. We feel the inherent need to grow things and watch them provide shade and sustenance. And at the end of the day, we get something cool to drink, sit in our comfy chairs in the shade of the gazebo and admire what we have created. When the air gets brisk, we may even create a small fire in our fire pit and sit outside to wait for the stars to come out. Our little mecca has survived the ravages of weather and time, and we grow to appreciate the skills we have been given to create this in our world.

It is up to us to take a break from our fundamental craziness of society, and explore the philosophies of life. It is up to us to keep the good parts of history alive and reflect on what we have been given. It is up to us to sit around the campfire and think about the state of affairs. Western writers have pondered this: “…How some scientists speculated that gathering around fires was the original unique characteristic of human beings. Not language or metaphor or tool use but the social circle, the gathering around the flame, the place where all those other discoveries were communicated.” “Yup, that’s right. Around the campfire you have a lot of spirit and it comes out in different ways. Kidding each other, serious thought. Singing. Politics, nature, jokes. Everything mixed, like you say. Campfires are a medium of expression all their own.” [Gessner, David. All The Wild That Remains: Edward Abbey, Wallace Stegner, and the American West (p. 99). W. W. Norton & Company. Kindle Edition].

“Campfires bring back so many memories of our childhood and most of them are good. In times of strife, we tend to go back to these memories to be at peace within ourselves. Campfires have provided warmth, light, fuel for cooking, and a sense of security deeply imbedded in our genes from our ancient ancestors. Campfires can free up conversations and you feel happy and free from the world’s problems for a quick minute.”
https://enjoythewild.com/benefits-of-a-campfire/
https://www.huffpost.com/entry/the-evolutionary-reason-w_n_6171508

So, now that we have had cooperation with the weather, and there is water in the mountains, we can get out, maybe go camping, or create a fire in our backyards. We can spend a night in the open looking at the stars. We can think about the world and what we can do to help it. And maybe we can be at peace for a moment. Reminisce of days gone by and good things to come. Relax for a moment away from the screens. Listen to the world around you in a different way.

But like all things we create (fire) we must be cautious and remember to use the designated areas to create a campfire. We must completely put out the fire! Rake, rake, check, and re-check before you leave the site for any embers. Drown it out and re-rake the embers. We can appreciate nature and protect it at the same time. No more human fire disasters!

Love to all on this hot, dark, and stormy day.

Rediscovering My Bucket List: Adventures After 40

Remember when we were 25 years old and thought 40 years old was such a long way away? Remember when we produced our bucket list? I do. However, I did not produce mine until I was 40 years old and still haven’t completed it all. I do not regret completing everything at my age. The reason I have not completed it is that I am still alive and working towards checking off another item on the list every day right now. So maybe I’m not in the shape I was when I was 25, but I made it up all those hills in the almost 100-degree desert this summer. Maybe I haven’t traveled to the other side of the world, but I will do that before I die. I might not ever be a best-selling author, but I will keep writing and publishing my stories. I can’t make a perfect pie crust or biscuit, but that doesn’t stop me from trying.

This summer we took a road trip through Utah, taking the long way around to get the kiddo back to college in Salt Lake City. I re-visited national parks that I haven’t seen in thirty years. It was still beautiful, not as I remember it from the past with way too many people. It was a wonderful adventure even though there were so many changes, both environmentally and city and population growth. Change happens no matter how we want it to stay the same, but I know it is a good thing to look at places I have been to through the eyes of others.

I look at other peoples’ bucket lists and wish that I had done more of the extremely hard physical activities on my list earlier in my life. I read one person’s bucket list that made me laugh: “Ride an elephant,” And yep, we did that at our wedding! I have visited almost all fifty states in my lifetime. I wanted to name a few places I have experienced. There is so much more, but I’ll leave that for another blog:

I hiked a small part of the Appalachian Trail on the weekends. I hiked and camped for seven days in the Grand Canyon with my best friends. I found the most amazing banana slugs hiking in the beautiful wet forests of the state of Washington, and watched the fish being tossed back and forth by the workers at Fisherman’s wharf. I have been to Gatlinburg, Tennessee (before it burned), and the Outer Banks of North Carolina. I went to Legoland, La Joya to watch the seals and visited Coronado Island and the Mission district of San Diego. I went to Las Vegas with my best friend back in the 1990s. I have rafted in Canyonlands and the Arkansas River. We went to Hawaii to two islands. In Oahu we snorkeled in Hanauma Bay and other places. In Maui, we drove up Haleakala, took the road to Hana, and hiked the bamboo forest to the top. I took the little car up to the top of the Arch in St. Louis, MO and that was scarier than any of the waters we rafted. There are so many other places I have been to in the States but now I want to adventure out of the country. I have never been to Canada or Europe and that is the part of the bucket list I hope to complete before I die. Learning about different communities helps me grow and appreciate unfamiliar cultures and lifestyles while contributing to their economies. I look forward to completing other adventures in the coming years and learning something new each day. So, for today, I ask that you lighten up and let me know of your experiences.

As a final note, below is a list of a few more puns to lighten your day! Enjoy.

  1. Why did Adele cross the road? To say “Hello” from the other side.
  2. What kind of concert only costs 45 cents? A 50 Cent concert featuring Nickelback.
  3. What did the grape say when it got crushed? Nothing, it just let out a little wine.
  4. I want to be cremated as it is my last hope for a smoking hot body.
  5. Time flies like an arrow. Fruit flies like a banana.
  6. To the guy who invented zero, thanks for nothing.