I want to suggest an incredible story for all of us women who were employed in government or the military service who just understand:
The Women by Kristin Hannah. It’s about the women nurses on the front lines in Vietnam who came back to chaos and everyone denying that there were any women in the war. The author’s research was phenomenal and the tale was heart rendering and so well written. I remember so many of my high school classmates never coming back. I remember no one wanting to talk about the war and how it affected us, both home and away. I remember vividly my visit to the Vietnam Veterans War Memorial wall in the 1980s when I went to Washington to speak about juvenile delinquency. The wall was something those veterans needed and it took a private group to honor them. It was both sad and empowering to look upon the 50,000 men and women’s names on the wall. There were flowers, pictures and mementos left by their families. The Vietnam Women’s Memorial wasn’t created and installed until 1993 after a decade of grassroots organizing and activism. 

I laughed and cried during this storytelling and was glad someone wrote about it. We all need to remember our past and how all people of that war (and its subsequent toll) were treated and how things are going right now sixty-plus years later.

On a lighter note, here are some wonderful obscure words to enjoy joy:
Continued… Brown Daily Herald, published in 2023 from the Dictionary of Obscure Joy. https://www.browndailyherald.com/post-magazine/article/2023/04/joys-ford

Glamhaut – adj. elegant, feminine, opulent; walking in high heels which click-clack on the ground beneath you while your chin is high because their eyes are on you and they’re seeing exactly what you want them to see: your sculpted collarbone, jaw that could cut glass, and your eyes, which do not so much as deign to look down on them. From glamor + French haut, as in “haute couture,” meaning high fashion, or “haut talons” meaning high heels. Pronounced “glahm-awt.”
Infinite – adj. feeling your hair fly above your ears because your head is poking out of the sunroof of a car flying down the highway, as if the only sounds in the world are the bass pounding at the seat beneath your feet and the wind whipping past your ears, as if you could scream as loud as you could imagine, but the sound would be left behind as soon as it flew out of your mouth, already in the past. As referenced in The Perks of Being a Wallflower.
Irid – n. the ballooning relief of having shed a secret. Perhaps the secret was dark and looming or perhaps it was festering and starting to rot, but it was a secret which has weighed heavily upon you like a great rhinoceros on your chest, and now it is gone. It has slipped away and you feel you might start floating upwards with the sudden lack of it. Ancient Greek ίριδα, irida, goddess of the rainbow + rid, to make oneself free of something troublesome. Pronounced “eye-rid.” 
Jigsort –v. to set the last piece of a puzzle into its proper place. From jigsaw + German Ort, place + to sort.
Klarglee – n. the unbelievably pleasant sensation of clean legs against crisp sheets after a long day. German klar, clean + glee, great delight. Pronounced “klahr-glee.”
Limerence –n. love for a person who doesn’t exist; a precious, private, fantastical kind of love which can live, sparkling and immaculate, in your mind, unburdened with the ties that bind real-life love to the cold and unforgiving earth. From the work of psychologist Dorothy Tennov, meaning ‘obsessive infatuation with someone, sometimes accompanied by delusions.’ Pronounced “lihm-ur-ehns.”
Ludust – n. the small-smile feeling evoked by memories of your very first love who has long since turned to dust in your mind, though you still remember them when you hear a certain song, or smell apple pie. Greek ludus, playful, young, puppy-dog love + past + dust + lust. Pronounced “luh-duhst.”
Macnall Tale – adj. delight in your own harmless lies, a kinder synonym for absolute and utter bullshit; a “likely story,” as your mother would say, her voice dripping with sarcasm, or if you asked your father, you’re “full of it.” Gaelic macnas, playfulness + tall tale.
Magpiance – n. the delight in a collection of objects you have amassed—perhaps a small assortment of clocks or pebbles or other eclectic trinkets. From magpie, a small black bird famous for its love of collecting. Pronounced “mag-pie-ants.”
Melliflux – n. a state of artistic ‘flow’ wherein one’s hands seem to move of their own accord, wild and graceful, as if your artwork and your hands are working with one mind, talking back and forth to each other in a language your mind does not speak, so you must watch with delight from above as they commune. From mellifluous, sweet sounding and smooth + flux, steady and continuous stream.
Irread – v. to read a piece of writing and recognize yourself reflected back, to feel seen and known by an author long dead. From mirrored + read + myriad. Pronounced “meer-eed.”
Piggle – v. when you laugh so hard and so hysterically that you pee a little. From pee + giggle.
Plasconder – v. to long for spaces that speak to the spirit, spaces that hide the hider themselves (these are places that are small and snug and well-tucked in, secret and quiet and almost intangible, places that are unobservable, yet from which one can observe perfectly well). From place, a portion of space, a home + Spanish esconder, to hide. Pronounced “play-skon-der.”
Punleasure – n. delight in a particularly clever bit of word-play. From pun + pleasure.
Quilia – n. a particular care for somebody you love when they are asleep, their face so uncreased and childlike that you want to tuck them in and gently brush their hair back from an impossibly smooth forehead. From quilt + Greek ϕιλία, (philia), familial love.
Sensukia – n. a feeling of yearning which inexplicably brings us closer to that place where joy and sorrow meet; the feeling after you wish on an eyelash, or in the middle of a game of “she loves me, she loves me not.” .rom German sehnsucht, yearning; wistful longing. Pronounced “sehn-sue-kee-ah.”
Sollevato Voce –n. the feeling that, while you sing, your voice is rising and lifted by the voices around you, and you are lifting them in turn. Italian sollevato, lifted + voce, voice. Pronounced “soll-eh-vah-toe / voe-chay.”
Suistalgia – n. the realization often experienced while looking at your own reflection in the mirror who seems somehow older than you did just yesterday—of what your younger self would think of you now; specifically, that they would fall on the floor in awe of who you have become, that they would be jaw-droppingly stunned by your clothes and your hair and just how grown-up you look, even though you still share the same smile. Latin prefix sui, meaning self + nostalgia. Pronounced “soo-ee-stahl-gee-ah.”
Terrarific – n. delight in being covered in dirt. Latin terra, earth + terrific.
Unwelsh – n. the feeling of being weightless, almost nihilistic, as if you’ve taken a bra off after a day which felt particularly happy and are naked in your bedroom with the windows open. German Weltschmerz, world-weariness, + unleash, pronounced “uhn-wehlsh.”
Vêtemots – n. a kind word, said by a passerby, about something you’re wearing—the article of clothing, of course, will be forever endowed with the power of that compliment and will therefore become something more than it was before. I’ll never wear that scarf again without thinking of that seven year old on the T who told me I looked like her favorite doll. French vêtements, clothes + French mots, words.
Wynnsome – adj. bouncing, childlike, or perhaps puppylike in one’s bright excitement, joyful like a chanted nursery-rhyme while jump-roping in overalls over steaming blacktop. From Old English Wynn, delight or joy, + winsome, pleasing and engaging often because of a childlike charm and innocence. Pronounced “wihn-suhm.”

As a final note, here is an incredible article geared toward a senior bucket list. Have fun with it and I send my love out to all of you.
https://www.browndailyherald.com/post-magazine/article/2023/04/farewell-marshan